[Home]  [Headlines]  [Latest Articles]  [Latest Comments]  [Post]  [Mail]  [Sign-in]  [Setup]  [Help]  [Register] 

"Analysis: The Final State of the Presidential Race"

He’ll, You Pieces of Garbage

The Future of Warfare -- No more martyrdom!

"Kamala’s Inane Talking Points"

"The Harris Campaign Is Testament to the Toxicity of Woke Politics"

Easy Drywall Patch

Israel Preparing NEW Iran Strike? Iran Vows “Unimaginable” Response | Watchman Newscast

In Logansport, Indiana, Kids are Being Pushed Out of Schools After Migrants Swelled County’s Population by 30%: "Everybody else is falling behind"

Exclusive — Bernie Moreno: We Spend $110,000 Per Illegal Migrant Per Year, More than Twice What ‘the Average American Makes’

Florida County: 41 of 45 People Arrested for Looting after Hurricanes Helene and Milton are Noncitizens

Presidential race: Is a Split Ticket the only Answer?

hurricanes and heat waves are Worse

'Backbone of Iran's missile industry' destroyed by IAF strikes on Islamic Republic

Joe Rogan Experience #2219 - Donald Trump

IDF raids Hezbollah Radwan Forces underground bases, discovers massive cache of weapons

Gallant: ‘After we strike in Iran,’ the world will understand all of our training

The Atlantic Hit Piece On Trump Is A Psy-Op To Justify Post-Election Violence If Harris Loses

Six Al Jazeera journalists are Hamas, PIJ terrorists

Judge Aileen Cannon, who tossed Trump's classified docs case, on list of proposed candidates for attorney general

Iran's Assassination Program in Europe: Europe Goes Back to Sleep

Susan Olsen says Brady Bunch revival was cancelled because she’s MAGA.

Foreign Invaders crisis cost $150B in 2023, forcing some areas to cut police and fire services: report

Israel kills head of Hezbollah Intelligence.

Tenn. AG reveals ICE released thousands of ‘murderers and rapists’ from detention centers into US streets

Kamala Harris Touts Mass Amnesty Offering Fast-Tracked Citizenship to Nearly Every Illegal Alien in U.S.

Migration Crisis Fueled Rise in Tuberculosis Cases Study Finds

"They’re Going to Try to Kill Trump Again"

"Dems' Attempts at Power Grab Losing Their Grip"

"Restoring a ‘Great Moderation’ in Fiscal Policy"

"As attacks intensify, Trump becomes more popular"

Posting Articles Now Working Here

Another Test

Testing

Kamala Harris, reparations, and guaranteed income

Did Mudboy Slim finally kill this place?

"Why Young Americans Are Not Taught about Evil"

"New Rules For Radicals — How To Reinvent Kamala Harris"

"Harris’ problem: She’s a complete phony"

Hurricane Beryl strikes Bay City (TX)

Who Is ‘Destroying Democracy In Darkness?’

‘Kamalanomics’ is just ‘Bidenomics’ but dumber

Even The Washington Post Says Kamala's 'Price Control' Plan is 'Communist'

Arthur Ray Hines, "Sneakypete", has passed away.

No righT ... for me To hear --- whaT you say !

"Walz’s Fellow Guardsmen Set the Record Straight on Veep Candidate’s Military Career: ‘He Bailed Out’ "

"Kamala Harris Selects Progressive Minnesota Governor Tim Walz as Running Mate"

"The Teleprompter Campaign"

Good Riddance to Ismail Haniyeh

"Pagans in Paris"

"Liberal groupthink makes American life creepy and could cost Democrats the election".


Status: Not Logged In; Sign In

United States News
See other United States News Articles

Title: Being a faggot is a choice
Source: [None]
URL Source: https://socialinqueery.com/2013/03/ ... raight-here-are-5-reasons-why/
Published: Feb 12, 2018
Author: ejaneward
Post Date: 2018-02-12 11:57:20 by no gnu taxes
Keywords: None
Views: 25961
Comments: 212

1. Just because an argument is politically strategic, does not make it true: A couple of years ago, the Human Rights Campaign, arguably the country’s most powerful lesbian and gay organization, responded to politician Herman Cain’s assertion that being gay is a choice. They asked their members to “Tell Herman Cain to get with the times! Being gay is not a choice!” They reasoned that Cain’s remarks were “dangerous.” Why? “Because implying that homosexuality is a choice gives unwarranted credence to roundly disproven practices such as ‘conversion’ or ‘reparative’ therapy. The risks associated with attempts to consciously change one’s sexual orientation include depression, anxiety and self-destructive behavior.” Image

The problem with such statements is that they infuse biological accounts with an obligatory and nearly coercive force, suggesting that anyone who describes homosexual desire as a choice or social construction is playing into the hands of the enemy. In 2012, the extent to which gay biology had become a moral and political imperative came into full view when actress Cynthia Nixon, after commenting to a New York Times Magazine reporter that she “chose” to pursue a lesbian relationship after many years as a content heterosexual, was met with outrage by lesbian and gay activists. As one horrified gay male writer proclaimed, “[Nixon] just fell into a right-wing trap, willingly. …Every religious right hatemonger is now going to quote this woman every single time they want to deny us our civil rights.” Under considerable pressure from lesbian and gay advocacy groups, Nixon recanted her statement a few weeks later, stating instead that she must have been born with bisexual potential.

Yes, it’s true that straight people are more tolerant when they believe that lesbian and gay people have no choice in the matter. If homosexual desire is hardwired, then we cannot change it; we must live with this condition, and it would be unfair to judge us for that which we cannot change. By implication, if we could choose, of course we would choose to be heterosexual. Any sane person would choose heterosexuality (not so. see here). And when homophobic people come to the opposite conclusion—that homosexual desire is something we can choose—then they want to help us make the right choice, the heterosexual choice. And they are willing to offer this help in the form of violent shock therapy and other “conversion” techniques. In light of all this, I can absolutely understand why it feels much safer to believe that we are born this way, and then to circulate this idea like our lives depend on it (because, for some people, this truly is a matter of life and death). Indeed, most progressive straight people and most gay and bi people–including Lady Gaga herself–hold the conviction that our sexual orientation is innate. They have taken their lead from the mainstream gay and lesbian movement, which has powerfully advocated for this view.

But the fact that the “born this way” hypothesis has resulted in greater political returns for gay and lesbian people doesn’t have anything to do with whether it is true. Maybe, as gay people, we want to get together and pretend it is true because it is politically strategic. That would be interesting. But still, it wouldn’t make the idea true.

The science is wrong: People like to cite “the overwhelming scientific evidence” that sexual orientation is biological in nature. But show me a study that claims to have proven this, and I will show you a flawed research design. Let’s take one example: In 2000, a team of researchers at UC Berkeley conducted a study in which they found that lesbians were more likely than heterosexual women to have a “masculine” hand structure. Presumably, most men have a longer ring finger than index finger, whereas most women have the opposite (or they have index and ring fingers of the same length). Lesbians, according to this study, are more likely than straight women to have what we might call “male-pattern hands.” The researchers concluded that this finding supports their theory that lesbianism might be caused by a “fetal androgyn wash” in the womb—that is, when female fetuses are exposed to greater levels of a masculinizing hormone, it shows up later in the form of female masculinity: male-pattern hands and… attraction to women. But this study makes the same error that countless others have made: it does not properly distinguish between gender (whether one is masculine or feminine) and sexual orientation (heterosexuality or homosexuality). Simply put, the fact that a woman is “masculine” (itself a social construction) or has been introduced to greater levels of a male hormone need not have anything to do with whether she is attracted to women. We would only assume this if we had already accepted the heteronormative premise that masculine people (or men) are naturally attracted to femaleness and that normal (i.e., feminine) women are naturally attracted to men. Herein lies the bias. Many “masculine” women who are heterosexual (have you been to the rural South?) would like us to know that their gender does not line up with their sexual desire in any predictable way. And many very feminine lesbians would like us to know this too. The bottom line is that ideas about sexual desire are so bound up with misconceptions about gender and with the presumption that heterosexuality is nature’s default, that science has yet to approach this subject in an objective way. For a comprehensive examination of the flaws in the most widely cited research on sexual orientation, see Rebecca Jordan-Young’s brilliant book Brain Storm: The Flaws in the Science of Sex Differences (Harvard University Press, 2011).

3. The science is wrong: An even greater problem with the science of sexual orientation is that it seeks to find the genetic causes of gayness, as if we all agree about what gayness is. To say that “being gay” is genetic is to engage in science that hinges on a very historically recent and specifically European-American understanding of what being gay means. In Ancient Greece, sex between elite men and adolescent boys was a common and normative cultural practice. According to historians Michel Foucault and Jonathan Ned Katz, these relationships were considered the most praise-worthy, substantive and Godly forms of love (whereas sex between a man and a woman was, for all intents and purposes, sex between a man and his slave). If men having frequent and sincere sex with one another is what we mean by “gay,” then do we really believe that something so fundamentally different was happening in the Ancient Athenian gene pool? Did some evolutionary occurrence enable Plato’s ancestors to get rid of all of those heterosexual genes? And what about native cultures in which all boys engage in homosexual rites of passage? Do we imagine that we could identify some genetic evidence of propensity to ingest sperm as part of a cultural initiation into manhood? What about all of the cultures around the globe in which male homosexual sex does not signal gayness except for under certain specific circumstances (e.g., you are only gay if you are the receptive sexual partner, or if you are feminine)? And while I am on this subject, what about the fact the United States is precisely one of those cultures? When young college women lick each other’s boobs at frat parties, or when young college men stick their fingers in each other’s butts while being hazed by their frat brothers, we don’t call this gay—we call this “girls gone wild” or “hazing.” My point here is that a lot of people engage in homosexual behavior, but somehow we talk about the genetic origins of homosexuality as if we are clear about who is gay and who is not, and as if it’s also clear that “gay genes” are possessed only by people who are culturally and politically gay (you know, the people who are seriously gay). This is a bit arbitrary, don’t you think?

Just 150 years ago, scientists went searching for the physiological evidence that women were hysterical. Hysteria, by Victorian medical definition, meant that a woman’s uterus had become dislodged from its proper location and was floating around her body causing all sorts of trouble—like feminism, and other matters of grave concern. And guess what, they found the evidence, and they published books and articles to prove it. They also looked for and found the evidence that all people of African and Asian ancestry were intellectually and morally inferior to people of European Ancestry. Many books were published dedicated to establishing these obviously absurd and violent beliefs as legitimate and indisputable scientific facts. Similarly, the science of sexual orientation has a long and disturbing history. In the late 1800s and early 1900s, it was believed that homosexuals had beady eyes, particularly angular facial structures, and “bad blood.” Today, we apparently have gender variant fingers and gay brains.

Is it possible that people who identify themselves as “gay” in the United States (again, keep in mind that “gay” is a culturally and historically specific concept), share some common physiology? Perhaps. But even if this is so, do we really know why? Indeed, we may find (as Simon LeVay did) that men who identify as gay share a certain trait—a larger VIP SCN nucleus of the hypothalamus, for instance. But how do we know that this “enlargement” is a symptom or cause of their homosexuality, and not, say, a symptom or cause of their general propensity for bravery, creativity, or rebellion? In a homophobic culture, you need some bravery (and other awesome traits) to be queer. Perhaps these personality traits are what are actually being observed under the microscope.

And, of course, there is the time-eternal question: why aren’t scientists looking for the genetic causes of heterosexuality? Or masturbation? Or interest in oral sex? The reason is that none of these sex acts currently violate social norms, at least not strongly enough to be perceived as sexual aberrations. But this was not always true. In the 19th century, scientists were interested in the biological origins of the “masturbation perversion.” They were interested because they believed it was pathological, and because they wanted to know whether it could be repaired.

At the end of the day, what we can count on is that the science of sexual orientation will produce data that simply mirror the most crass and sexist gender binarisms circulating in the popular imagination. This research will report that women are innately more sexually fluid than men, capable of being turned-on by almost anything and everything (hmmm…. other than in Lisa Diamond’s research, where have I seen that idea before? Ah yes, heterosexual pornography.) It will report that men are sexually rigid, their desires impermeable. It will tell us that straight men simply cannot be aroused by men and that gay men are virtually hardwired to be repulsed by the thought of sex with women. Regardless of what else we might say about the soundness of these studies, what is evident to me is that they have been used to authorize many a straight man’s homophobia, and many a gay man’s misogyny.

4. Just because you have had homosexual or heterosexual feelings for as long as you can remember, does not mean you were born a homosexual or heterosexual. There are many things I have felt or done for as long as I can remember. I have always liked to argue. I have always loved drawing feet and shoes. I have always craved cheddar cheese. I have always felt a strong connection with happy, trashy pop music. These have been aspects of myself for as long as I can remember, and each represents a very strong impulse in me. But was I born with a desire to eat cheddar cheese or make drawings of feet? Are these desires that can be identified somewhere in my body, like on one of my genes? It would be hard to make these claims, because I could have been born and raised in China, let’s say, where cheddar cheese is basically non-existent and would not have been part of my life. And while I may have been born with some general artistic potential, surely our genetic material is not so specific as to determine that I would love to draw platform shoes. The point here is that what we desire in childhood is far more complex and multifaceted than the biological sciences can account for, and this goes for our sexual desires as well. Some basic raw material is in place (like a general potential for creativity), but the details—well, those are ours to discover.

5. Secretly, you already know that people’s sexual desires are shaped by their social and cultural context. Lots of adults worry that if we allow little boys to wear princess dresses and paint their nails with polish, they might later be more inclined to be gay. Even some liberal parents (including gay and lesbian parents) worry that if they introduce their child to “too much” in the way of queer material, this could be a way of “pushing” homosexuality on them. Similarly, many people worry that if young women are introduced to feminism in college, and if they become too angry or independent, they may just decide to be lesbians. But if we all really believed that sexual orientation was congenital—or present at birth—then no one would ever worry that social influences could have an effect on our sexual orientation. But I think that in reality, we all know that sexual desire is deeply subject to social, cultural, and historical forces. We know that if the world today were a different place, a place where homosexuality was culturally normative (like, say, Ancient Greece), we would see far more people embracing their homosexual desires. And if this were the case, it would have nothing to do with genetics.

The concept of “sexual orientation” is itself less than 150 years old, and almost equally recent is the notion that people should partner based on romantic attraction. Most of what feels so natural and unchangeable about our desires—including the bodies and personalities we are attracted to—is conditioned by our respective cultures. The majority of straight American men, for instance, will tell you that they have a strong, visceral aversion to women with bushy armpit hair. But this aversion, no matter how deep it may now run in men’s psyches and no matter how nonnegotiable it may feel, is hardly genetic. Up until the last century, the entire world’s female population had armpit hair, and somehow, heterosexual sex survived.

People like to use the failure of “gay conversion” therapies as evidence that homosexuality is innate. First of all, these conversions do not always fail; if you make someone feel disgusted enough by their desires, you can change their desires. Call it a tragedy of repression, or call it a religious awakening—regardless, the point is that we can and do change. For instance, in high school and early in college, my sexual desires were deeply bound up with sexism. I wanted to be a hot girl, and I wanted powerful men to desire me. I was as authentically heterosexual as any woman I knew. But later, several years into my exploration of feminist politics, what I once found desirable (heterosexuality and sexism) became utterly unappealing. I became critical of homophobia and sexism in ways that allowed these forces far less power to determine the shape of my desires. If this had not happened, no doubt I’d be married to a man. And if he wasn’t a complete asshole, I’d probably be happy enough. But instead, I was drawn to queerness for various political and emotional reasons, and from my vantage point today, I believe it to be one of the best desires I ever cultivated. [Does this mean that your daughter may decide to be a lesbian if she takes some women’s studies courses? Yes. Whatcha gonna do now?!]

Perhaps most importantly, the fact that we might cultivate or “choose” something doesn’t mean that it is a trivial, temporary, or less a vital part of who we are. For instance, is religion a choice? Certainly it is if we define “choice” as anything that isn’t an immutable part of our physiology. But many religious people would feel profoundly misunderstood and offended if I suggested that their religious beliefs were a phase, an experiment, or a less significant part of who they are then, say, their hair color. Choices are complex. Choices run deep. And yes, choices are both constrained and fluid–just like our bodies.

Post script: Ultimately, the terms set forward in the public debate about this subject–biology versus “choice”–are quite limited, mainly because “choice” is not the most useful term for describing all of the possibilities that sit apart from biology. Several social, cultural, and structural factors can shape our embodied desires and erotic possibilities. The fact that these factors are not physiological in origin does not mean that they aren’t coercive or subjectifying, resulting in a real or perceived condition of fixity or “no choice.” We know that social factors also become embodied over time. And yet, I remain somewhat committed to the concept of “choice”–or something like it–to describe the possibility of a critical and reflexive relationship to our sexual desires. Personally, the idea that I don’t have control over who or what I desire is a big turn-off to me, so I am constantly pushing back on what feel like the limits of my own desires. For instance, I went through a period of pushing myself to date femmes because I had some good reasons for being suspicious about why I had ruled them out from my dating pool. When it felt like I could never be nonmonogamous, I made it a goal to at least try. Then when I realized I only really felt attracted to alcoholic rebels, I nipped that in the bud too. Just when I thought I’d never think hairy men were hot, I allowed myself to face my attraction to Javier Bardem. When my tastes and proclivities start to feel like they are solidifying, I get suspicious and disappointed. So, in the interests of full disclosure, I am writing from the perspective of someone who finds sexual fixity pretty uninteresting, and who believes that there are really good feminist and queer reasons to take regular, critical inventory of the parts of our sexuality that we believe we cannot or will not change.

Post Comment   Private Reply   Ignore Thread  


TopPage UpFull ThreadPage DownBottom/Latest

Comments (1-172) not displayed.
      .
      .
      .

#173. To: Vicomte13 (#172)

A lot of people have gone to the Sorbonne.

Lots of Commies, like you.

VxH  posted on  2018-02-13   16:23:22 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#174. To: VxH (#173)

Lots of Commies, like you.

I am not a Communist. You, on the other hand, are a cockroach, and you would never get in. And if somehow you did, you wouldn't get through.

Vicomte13  posted on  2018-02-13   16:37:50 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#175. To: Vicomte13 (#174) (Edited)

I am not a Communist.

What ever you say, Comrade. You and your fairy tails are probably STILL the laughing stock of the flight line on Coronado island.

===================
(1) When I was a boy, I dove off a dock into a shallow, rocky lake alone. I broke my neck and severed by spinal cord, and was completely paralyzed and drowning at the bottom of the like. I asked God "Please", and he healed me and allowed me to rise and walk away. I told no one until decades later.

(2) A very dead lizard was raised from the dead in my hand by God, when I asked him "Please".

(3) A dead mouse was raised from the dead in my hand by God, when I asked him "Please".
https://libertysflame.com/cgi-bin/readart.cgi?ArtNum=38701
===================

That's Legendary stuff! SMH.

VxH  posted on  2018-02-13   16:50:53 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#176. To: VxH (#175) (Edited)

(1) When I was a boy, I dove off a dock into a shallow, rocky lake alone. I broke my neck and severed by spinal cord, and was completely paralyzed and drowning at the bottom of the like. I asked God "Please", and he healed me and allowed me to rise and walk away. I told no one until decades later.

(2) A very dead lizard was raised from the dead in my hand by God, when I asked him "Please".

(3) A dead mouse was raised from the dead in my hand by God, when I asked him "Please".

That's Legendary stuff! SMH.

That is all completely true stuff.

God is.

Christ is his son. His physical son. Real. Not a legend. Rose from the dead.

If all of the "Christians" and Catholics and Orthodox and people like you who are ashamed to say all get their religious beliefs wrong and talk themselves into a pit, then nevertheless God is, and Jesus is his son, and Jesus rose from the dead, and he can bring others back from the dead. And if we follow him, by doing what he said to do, we can find favor with him.

Neither one of us has been behaving very well towards the other. I would extend you the hand of peace and suggest we start over and try again.

In fact, I am. Here. Now. Peace to you. Let's make peace and stop swearing at each other. It is as unkind as it is unnecessary.

Vicomte13  posted on  2018-02-13   17:57:23 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#177. To: Vicomte13 (#176)

people like you who are ashamed to say

{ shrug } I don't feel ashamed. I just don't bark on command.

VxH  posted on  2018-02-13   18:48:00 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#178. To: A K A Stone (#152)

At first I wasn't going to participate in this thread. Then I thought I'll make one comment. Then another and another.

If its a worthy subject, it's like a pool -- you MUST jump in. And you do. Head first.

I for one enjoy your first-blush totally unfiltered reaction. And for that reason it's honest and straight-forward -- though lacking a bit of tact, crude and raw at times.

Fwiw, we are in agreement often.

Liberator  posted on  2018-02-14   13:50:58 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#179. To: tpaine (#56)

Americans are addicted to aggressive fanaticism

Get real. That is NOT restricted to Americans. It is true of every group of people to be found anywhere in the world. It's one of the flaws of human nature,as well as one of the survival traits needed by tribes to maintain unity.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   13:57:08 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#180. To: hondo68 (#58)

Trump rallies and GOP conventions?

So,what are you saying? If you don't think homosexuals should have the right to vote,hitch up your big girl panties and spit it out.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   13:58:38 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#181. To: A K A Stone (#59)

God would never want someone to be forced to sin like that in order to work.

If that's true,who are you to try to do God's Work for him? Let HIM handle it.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   13:59:42 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#182. To: tpaine (#61)

Legally, constitutionally speaking, --- private, consensual homosexual behaviors between adults should not be criminalized..

But that does not mean that we should accept homosexual acts as normal behavior not to be ostricized.

True.

I have no idea why so many people in America,allegedly a country of people who worship individual rights and freedoms,confuse public policy with private rights and prejudices.

By LAW,if it is ok for the government to punish homosexuals for having sex in private,the government has that SAME AUTHORITY to punish heterosexuals for having sex in private.

This is America. We are all supposed to have the same rights,as well as to have our own personal beliefs. Nowhere is that more true than when discussing personal likes and prejudices. To have our own freedoms,we MUST allow others to have their freedoms,also. REGARDLESS of if we share those desires or not.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   14:04:32 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#183. To: GrandIsland (#64)

"Faggot" is an aggressively pejorative word, like "nigger".

Negative, Ghost Ranger.

A faggot is a sick twisted freak of nature. One that by his/her own nature, does ZERO to ensure the survival of their own species. They are a weakness... and the only reason my species grow more accepting of them, is due to the increasing pussification of my species.

AFAIK,the word "faggot" came from the British,whose original use for the word was a bundle of sticks used to start a fire.

Since at one time when the Catholics were in charge,burning homosexuals at a state was a common punishment. Doesn't take a real stretch of the imagination to guess where and how the term "faggot" came to describe homosexuals,is it?

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   14:07:06 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#184. To: sneakypete (#183)

burning homosexuals at a state

I think it was a stake, driven into the ground that should have been driven into their perverted Godless hearts.

Liberals are like Slinkys. They're good for nothing, but somehow they bring a smile to your face as you shove them down the stairs.

IbJensen  posted on  2018-02-14   14:11:03 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#185. To: A K A Stone (#71)

If they were born that way then it is a dangerous birth defect. That if spread to far on the gene pool could cause the end of the species.

Homosexuals like to pretend they are the "majority minority" for political power reasons,but I strongly suspect there are a HELL of a lot more bi-sexuals running around than there ever were dedicated homosexuals.

Just look at all the married fathers of multiple children that got a divorce and suddenly announced they are homosexuals for proof. If you are really and truly a homosexual male the idea of having sex with a woman would be as repulsive to you as the idea of having sex with another man would be to me.

I would like for anybody that claims that God demands us all to be purely one or the other and condemns bi-sexuals or homosexuals to a lifetime of burning in hell to explain to me why males are born with nipples,and to take a good close look at a clitoris and tell me what it looks like.

God is either perfect in all respects,or he flunked out of design school. Which is it,and if God DOES exist and is perfect in every respect,WTF are YOU to condemn his creations? IF your God didn't think it was a biggie,who are you to get your panties all in a wad over it? Spend more time trying to improve yourself than finding flaws in others,and you will be a lot better off.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   14:20:50 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#186. To: A K A Stone (#75) (Edited)

They used to say it was 1 percent of the population. Now some homosexuals are claiming it is 10 percent. According to them it is growing exponentially.

Yeah,and we ALL know nobody would ever consider telling a lie to gain political power and wealth,right?

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   14:22:07 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#187. To: IbJensen (#184)

I think it was a stake, driven into the ground that should have been driven into their perverted Godless hearts.

How CHRISTIAN of you!

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-14   14:44:09 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#188. To: A K A Stone, no gnu taxes, redleghunter (#149)

There are lots of false teachings in Protestant churches also.

Yes, some Protestant sects have gone way off the reservation. Their teachings are so far off, or have so diluted/subverted/dismissed the whole of the Word that they wind up working for the OTHER "team." Creating that bit of doubt or creating a distracting fork in the road (like "Saints"/Marian worship) is exactly how Satan hopes to undermine belief in the Gospel. YES -- EVEN AMONGST "BELIEVERS."

If a church (or individual) simply believes in the literal word of Scripture -- both OT as well as NT there should be no rails to run off. If there are any parts of the Bible that so-called "Believers" insist should be dismissed as a "Fairy Tale," "Impossible!," or NOT the inspired-breathed Word of God written by men -- then the entire fabric Bible is suspect, unworthy of belief.

But why believe one or a couple of select "miracles," and not others as some "Christian do? It's because their church is weak, has mislead them or compromises on the Word. Moreover, these churches or individuals then give too much weight to the Secular Humanist/Evolutionist insists on an exclusive "truth," declaring unofficial ultimatums: Christians must choose between The Bible and both Physical AND Social "Science." As we well know, that's a false dichotomy; Any "science" is the study of the Material/Physical World. It can not "prove" the existence of the Spiritual Realm, ergo its Humanist high priests dismiss all Biblical claims and authority.

Here is where "Believers" are taking the bait of Un-Believers and tripping themselves up because if Genesis is not literally true, the REST of the Bible falls. Kill Genesis and the entire reason for a Redeemer along with the Gospel becomes un-necessary.

It must be noted that Jesus Christ Himself quoted from the Old Testament many time. For those who insist on cherry-picking OT Scripture while dismissing Genesis and its supernatural events, or any number of other supernatural events and miracles, one may as well create their own "Bible."

IF one considers themselves "Christian," by definition they believe in the documented Life-After Death of Jesus Christ and His Ascension -- THE Supernatural Event of events. So then why should the realm of OT events in Genesis (The Six-Day Creation, Eve created from the rib of Adam, Jonah and the Whale, The Parting of the Red Sea, the powers of Moses (as well as his speaking directly TO God Himself), etc.) be doubted or rendered, "Impossible!"?

MUCH of Scripture -- both OT and NT are Prophecy, which itself is supernatural knowledge. Gut or cherry-pick the Bible of SN events and people, and what have we? A Jeffersonian Salad Bar. Or a seriously diluted "Bible" with so many holes of doubt within it, Faith fails to take hold.

Matthew 7:21-23 (NKJV)

Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven.

"Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’

And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’

Liberator  posted on  2018-02-14   14:57:42 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#189. To: Tooconservative (#155)

Uh-huh. The museums and archaeologists are all just hiding the evidence. They're so afraid of upsetting the public. Just another giant conspiracy theory.

Nice analysis of what I'd written...

Oh wait -- you ignored the meat, the evidence, the photos, then immediately went on your usual red herring tangent, and then a par for the course -- dismissing or ridiculing all sources as, "Just another giant conspiracy. theory.

And YES btw -- the evidence IS being filtered, confiscated, and hidden for reasons that are obviously beyond your spectrum of knowledge or comprehension level.

This leads you to get pissy when your area of expertise extends beyond your comfort zone; Which is everything other than in your "safe" space -- what you read in WaPo or Times, an Encyclopedia, or in your monthly GOPe Newsletter.

It's not MY fault you're oblivious to many area of life.

Liberator  posted on  2018-02-14   15:35:20 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#190. To: Liberator (#188)

Matthew 7:21-23 (NKJV)

Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven.

"Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’

And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’

That is one of the most powerful verses of the bible, and I think everyone should always think about it when they examine their own lives.

no gnu taxes  posted on  2018-02-14   16:10:21 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#191. To: sneakypete (#185)

I would like for anybody that claims that God demands us all to be purely one or the other and condemns bi-sexuals or homosexuals to a lifetime of burning in hell to explain to me why males are born with nipples,and to take a good close look at a clitoris and tell me what it looks like.

A little man in a canoe?

What do you think it looks like, that's what I want to know.     : )

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-14   16:17:42 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#192. To: sneakypete (#185)

Homosexuals like to pretend they are the "majority minority" for political power reasons,but I strongly suspect there are a HELL of a lot more bi-sexuals running around than there ever were dedicated homosexuals.

I've always thought this too.

Let's say there are 10%-15% of all men who are a little bisexual or who are willing to have sex with other men at times, like in prison. And some guys I've met over the years seem like any-port-in-a-storm types, basically just horny guys that want some action of whatever kind. I mention this because a couple of them surprised me by making passes at me for no good reason I could see except they were just horny. Some guys really do spend more time thinking with the little head than the big head.

Anyway, if a bi guy really doesn't have much preference sexually and just likes sex, he might choose to be in a relationship with an exclusively gay guy because he's rich or he can help his career or whatnot. And then he would count as a "gay guy" because he's in a relationship with another man, perhaps even married to him. But that doesn't mean he's actually gay. He's still just the same any-port-in-a-storm kind of horny guy but now he's considered gay instead of being considered straight because he chose instead to be in a relationship with a woman instead.

The bisexuals screw up all these statistics they try to beat us over the head with. I think they're pretty dubious studies as a result, going all the way back to Kinsey.

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-14   16:25:52 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#193. To: Liberator (#189)

Just another giant conspiracy theory.

I see that you noticed my loaded language.     ; )

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-14   16:27:09 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#194. To: Liberator (#188)

IF one considers themselves "Christian," by definition they believe in the documented Life-After Death of Jesus Christ and His Ascension -- THE Supernatural Event of events. So then why should the realm of OT events in Genesis (The Six-Day Creation, Eve created from the rib of Adam, Jonah and the Whale, The Parting of the Red Sea, the powers of Moses (as well as his speaking directly TO God Himself), etc.) be doubted or rendered, "Impossible!"?

Amen!

redleghunter  posted on  2018-02-14   23:18:54 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#195. To: IbJensen (#184)

burning homosexuals at a state

I think it was a stake, driven into the ground that should have been driven into their perverted Godless hearts.

I have spelling recognition problems after having a stroke a while back. Sometimes I can read a post 3 or 4 times and still not see anything wrong.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-15   0:01:48 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#196. To: Tooconservative (#192)

Let's say there are 10%-15% of all men who are a little bisexual or who are willing to have sex with other men at times, like in prison. And some guys I've met over the years seem like any-port-in-a-storm types, basically just horny guys that want some action of whatever kind. I mention this because a couple of them surprised me by making passes at me for no good reason I could see except they were just horny. Some guys really do spend more time thinking with the little head than the big head.

Let's not forget the females. They are horndogs as much as the men are.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-15   0:19:11 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#197. To: sneakypete (#196)

Let's not forget the females. They are horndogs as much as the men are.

No, they just aren't. Maybe a few but they are rare. Women are interested in intimacy and nesting and emotional issues and a decent home for their kids. Men are just plain horny.

If anyone was relying on the horniness of women to promulgate the race, we would have died out thousands of years ago. Horny dudes, willing to tell most any lie or do most anything just to get laid, is how we all got here.

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-15   0:40:16 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#198. To: Tooconservative (#197)

No, they just aren't. Maybe a few but they are rare. Women are interested in intimacy and nesting and emotional issues and a decent home for their kids. Men are just plain horny.

You need to get out more.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-15   1:06:24 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#199. To: sneakypete (#198)

I have never heard anyone say seriously that women have a sex drive as strong as a man's.

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-15   1:25:19 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#200. To: Tooconservative (#199) (Edited)

I have never heard anyone say seriously that women have a sex drive as strong as a man's.

I am honestly shocked by that. I've met a few that scared me a little.

They like to pretend they aren't that interested in sex,but that's just a game they play so they can threaten to not have sex with you unless you do what they want.

That never did work with me because I'd tell them,"Fine,I'll go find a woman that will. Lock up when you leave."

True funny story. Once had a woman I worked with ask me for a ride home after work one day. Got near her where she lived,and she said "How about we just get some beer and go to your place?" Hot redhead with green eyes asking ME if I thought that was a good idea? So I said,"Uhhhh,yeah. I can do that!"

Next day same thing,but when we got to where she lived,she said,"I'll be right back" and jumped out of the truck. When she came back out the door she was carrying her suitcase.

"Hmmmm" I said to self,"Why the hell not? I'm not dating anyone right now,so go with the flow!" so I just let her move in.

A month or so later we were sitting around the house after work and out of the blue she just announced "You know that after we get married we won't be having sex so often,right?"

I was speechless. Number 1,I had no idea we were even engaged. I thought we were just poking fun and killing time. After I gathered my wits,I told her "You know,I think you need to start looking for another place to live,and while we are on the subject,you should probably also do some work on your presentation. Telling a man he is going to get LESS sex after you marry is no way to convince him to marry you. Not that we don't all KNOW we will get less sex. We do know this. We just like to pretend that's not happening for as long as we can."

A couple of months later she married another guy that worked there with us.

Girl was gorgeous,very smart,and a hard worker,but seemed to have a wire or two loose.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-15   20:23:21 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#201. To: sneakypete (#200)

A month or so later we were sitting around the house after work and out of the blue she just announced "You know that after we get married we won't be having sex so often,right?"

I am talking about post-honeymoon sex.

Once they decide to put out, they make a real effort. Once they feel settled in a relationship, it drops off more often than not.

We've all heard this a lot of times from a lot of guys. There may some exceptions out there but it seems to stand the test of time.

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-15   21:18:37 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#202. To: Tooconservative (#201)

Once they decide to put out, they make a real effort. Once they feel settled in a relationship, it drops off more often than not.

With their husbands,maybe. They get bored,and need to control someone else.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-16   2:21:55 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#203. To: sneakypete (#202)

With their husbands,maybe.

Maybe you should stop sleeping with these married woman. It's distorting your view of things. LOL

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-16   11:27:09 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#204. To: Tooconservative, sneakypete (#201)

I have never heard anyone say seriously that women have a sex drive as strong as a man's....

Yep. Women just don't possess as strong a sex dive in general. That's consensus opinion and fact. Not that there aren't many exceptions, Pete. All one has is personal experience, anecdotal from friends/acquaintances, and the research.

(TC): I am talking about post-honeymoon sex.

Once they decide to put out, they make a real effort. Once they feel settled in a relationship, it drops off more often than not.

We've all heard this a lot of times from a lot of guys. There may some exceptions out there but it seems to stand the test of time.

TC's full assessment and typical way things play out in the medium-long run is far more often the case than exception.

I've also informally polled other guys. THIS IS INDEED THE TYPICAL CASE whether anecdotal or researched.

Liberator  posted on  2018-02-16   11:53:27 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#205. To: Tooconservative, sneakypete (#203)

We USED TO have a few women at either LP or LF to wade in on a matter like this....

I presume none exist.

Liberator  posted on  2018-02-16   11:57:20 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#206. To: Liberator (#205)

I presume none exist.

There are a few who make occasional posts here but they'd never post on this topic. Orthodoxa and goldilucky come to mind. There may be a few others. I always thought that 3-Dee is a lady but only because I think a man wouldn't choose that handle.

I don't think you want to ping them to come render their opinions.

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-16   12:15:57 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#207. To: sneakypete, Y'ALL, (#182)

Legally, constitutionally speaking, --- private, consensual homosexual behaviors between adults should not be criminalized.. But that does not mean that we should accept homosexual acts as normal behavior not to be ostricized. --- tpaine

True.

I have no idea why so many people in America,allegedly a country of people who worship individual rights and freedoms,confuse public policy with private rights and prejudices.

By LAW,if it is ok for the government to punish homosexuals for having sex in private,the government has that SAME AUTHORITY to punish heterosexuals for having sex in private.

This is America. We are all supposed to have the same rights,as well as to have our own personal beliefs. Nowhere is that more true than when discussing personal likes and prejudices. To have our own freedoms,we MUST allow others to have their freedoms,also. REGARDLESS of if we share those desires or not. ---- sneakypete

You're preaching to the choir.. And we agree, although I'm far from being a choir boy..

What's weird about this is those who have such a violent reaction about queers.. By and large, I ignore while ostracizing them, -- and unless they get personal, just live and let live.

Private acts, unless they will harm others, can NOT be criminalized, as per our Constitutional Principles..

tpaine  posted on  2018-02-16   14:09:05 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#208. To: Liberator (#205)

We USED TO have a few women at either LP or LF to wade in on a matter like this....

I presume none exist.

Or want to confess.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-16   19:39:15 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#209. To: Liberator, sneakypete (#204)

I've also informally polled other guys. THIS IS INDEED THE TYPICAL CASE whether anecdotal or researched.

Think of your own experiences when people talk about this.

For every account of a man saying he turned a woman down for sex (and I can recall a few), you have 100 men talking about getting turned down for sex by a woman in a bar, a girlfriend, or a wife.

Of course, a man turning down sex is about as rare as a dog missing a chance to get petted. Most guys, it's anytime/anywhere.

I think this is a pretty universal thing.

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-17   1:28:56 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#210. To: Tooconservative (#209)

Of course, a man turning down sex is about as rare as a dog missing a chance to get petted. Most guys, it's anytime/anywhere.

Women "ask" men all the time,but it is a subtle thing,not the "wanna get nekkid and do it?" approach of most men.

See the thing is that women don't HAVE to ask or to seduce in most cases. All they have to do is show up. If they were to say yes to every man that asked him,none of them would have time to eat or sleep.

They also have to show a little more restraint about casual hookups because they are the ones that get stuck with pregnancy. This isn't a problem with the last couple of generations of women,but being impregnated by a stranger that will disappear into the distance and leave them as the sold caretakers and providers for a new baby was a VERY big deal and real thing for their grandmothers.

The teen girls and young women of today are unbelievably sexually aggressive compared to their grandmothers,and it's not because they are the first of their gender to discover sex is good. It's because due to birth control and job/career openings in the modern world that weren't available to their grandmothers,as well as a public more open-minded about unmarried mothers and their children has freed them from most of the worries about being tagged as a slut,their babies tagged as bastards,and both with nothing to look forward to be a unpleasant live of poverty and exclusion.

Women in the pre-1960's had a lot to worry about and a lot to bitch about that just doens't exist today outside of some fundie commune.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-17   11:25:47 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#211. To: sneakypete (#210)

Women "ask" men all the time,but it is a subtle thing,not the "wanna get nekkid and do it?" approach of most men.

Actually, it is not so happy a situation.

There is a large number of college-educated career women, increasingly competing for the attention of a small group of college men or professional men. If you are not a high-earning professional male, opportunities are drying up. If you are, you have your pick of women.

Tooconservative  posted on  2018-02-17   14:47:15 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#212. To: Tooconservative (#211)

There is a large number of college-educated career women, increasingly competing for the attention of a small group of college men or professional men. If you are not a high-earning professional male, opportunities are drying up. If you are, you have your pick of women.

Who would want them? They don't want a husband,they want a status sysmbol.

The male equivalent is the guy that goes for the blonde bimbo with the huge hooters. The blonde HAS to be stupid to agree to marry someone that shallow.

In the entire history of the world,the only nations that had to build walls to keep their own citizens from leaving were those with leftist governments.

sneakypete  posted on  2018-02-17   19:24:59 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


TopPage UpFull ThreadPage DownBottom/Latest

[Home]  [Headlines]  [Latest Articles]  [Latest Comments]  [Post]  [Mail]  [Sign-in]  [Setup]  [Help]  [Register] 

Please report web page problems, questions and comments to webmaster@libertysflame.com