It always makes me sad to go there from the perspective of an early LP poster who was banned on a contrivance.
Once it really was a nice site with deep respect for all viewpoints with little abuse based onanything allowed. (The Neal McIver days, before he left as moderator.)
I would never post there again unless Goldi re-opened the ferret account again and apologized for her abusive banning of me.
Closet queen? When someone is open about a triviality such as their sexual preference, they are not in any closet.
I love African American women, does that make me kinky because I find them sexy? I am used to people being as fucked up in opinion on homosexuality as you are being here, but I don't see the race slant on your slam as something many would snear about.