Who cares what someone does at one's grave? I mean, if you are dead and have moved on from your corporeal remains, the only person hurt is the guy cited if caught while peeing in public. ;-D
It's nearly impossible to insult us Eugeneans, M. Doggie Dawg. I mean, one of the biggest sellers of one T shirt vendor at Saturday Market is; "Eugene, we are here, because we are not all there."
Your attempt to insult in this fashion is like trying to disrespect an American with the old British taunt song, "Yankee Doodle Dandy." Most Americans will just smile and join in the singing of it.
Here we hug our trees, treat all 97 of the various gender orientations reverently, and if you call someone a hippie here, they will generally respond with, "Thanks." ;-D