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Title: The Myth About Marriage
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New York Review of Books
URL Source: http://www.nybooks.com/blogs/nyrblo ... s%29&utm_content=Google+Reader
Published: May 13, 2012
Author: Garry Wills
Post Date: 2012-05-13 10:23:43 by lucysmom
Keywords: None
Views: 62085
Comments: 126
Why do some people who would recognize gay civil unions oppose gay marriage? Certain religious groups want to deny gays the sacredeness of what they take to be a sacrament. But marriage is no sacrament. Some of my fellow Catholics even think that “true marriage” was instituted by Christ. It wasn’t. Marriage is prescribed in Eden by YHWH (Yahweh) at Genesis 2.24: man and wife shall “become one flesh.” When Jesus is asked about marriage, he simply quotes that passage from Genesis (Mark 10.8). He nowhere claims to be laying a new foundation for a “Christian marriage” to replace the Yahwist institution. Some try to make the wedding at Cana (John 1.1-11) somehow sacramental because Jesus worked his first miracle there. But that was clearly a Jewish wedding, like any other Jesus might have attended, and the miracle, by its superabundance of wine, is meant to show the disciples that the Messianic time has come. The great Johannine scholar Father Raymond Brown emphasizes this, and concludes of the passage: “Neither the external nor the internal evidence for a symbolic reference to matrimony is strong. The wedding is only the backdrop and occasion for the story, and the joining of the man and woman does not have any direct role in the narrative.” The early church had no specific rite for marriage. This was left up to the secular authorities of the Roman Empire, since marriage is a legal concern for the legitimacy of heirs. snip Those who do not want to let gay partners have the sacredness of sacramental marriage are relying on a Scholastic fiction of the thirteenth century to play with people’s lives, as the church has done ever since the time of Aquinas. The myth of the sacrament should not let people deprive gays of the right to natural marriage, whether blessed by Yahweh or not. They surely do not need—since no one does—the blessing of Saint Thomas.
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#41. To: SJN (#39)
Really? I don't doubt you, but that's news to me. Would you please post a link or two.
Anyone claiming to be an expert is selling something. I brandish my ignorance like a crucifix at vampires. Aaron Bady
But he also said, "this was left up to the secular authorities of the Roman Empire, since marriage is a legal concern for the legitimacy of heirs." Nothing was "left up to the secular authorities of the Roman empire" and Christians did not get married simply because "marriage is a legal concern for the legitimacy of heirs." Whether or not the church at that time had a uniform, one-size-fits-all marriage rite is neither here nor there. The fact is, of which there is tons of evidence, the Christian church had marriage rites at least as early as the 4th century. In fact, as my quotes and link show, until the rite was done, the marriage was not recognized by the Church, just as its not recognized today. He also argues that marriage is not a sacrament - here's what the Catholic Church says: The exact definition of a sacrament is that it is "an outward sign instituted by Christ to give grace." He can call himself a Catholic all he wants. I can say I'm a lawnmower until I'm blue in the face but that doesn't make me one. He can also make all the claims he wants but his claims were not proven. I claim the moon is made of blue cheese! Does that make it so? Where is his proof? I believe the Catholic Church has done an excellent job in defending/justifying/proving that marriage has always been considered a sacrament in the Church. I also believe that the fact that marriage is considered a sacrament by Churches that split with Rome in the 4th century to be pretty good proof that the Church has always considered marriage to be a sacrament.
Go forth and read. I won't do the research you apparently are unwilling to do for yourself.
Good points. I want to point out, however, that irrespective of religious practices from animism to the Church of Scientology and all those in between, that marriage was an important consideration in secular societies as well. Again, the goal has always been to ensure a minimum of social standards about a relationship wherein children were an important attribute for and about the same community. Beyond having progeny, another social goal was to ensure reasonable community FORCE against those that violated the bonds of the communal vows. Rape, incest, homosexuality and so forth were always shunned within almost all societies around the world. If someone was caught in acts that violated social standards, they were often shunned or chastised for years or even worse, put to death. As modern societies evolve, we are intricately linked to our past of many thousands of years. It is codified in our DNA and the documented laws for social behaviour. And the sense of "shame" shall always be the first area of responsible considerations, even if there is some sort of agreement to keep a relationship secret or away from society.
And I still haven't seen anybody mention the real reason why gays want to get married in the first place......
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Your religion's erronious perception of homosexuality belongs solely to people like you if you ant it. It should not be the basis of what is codified into law. ADA research and all other well conducted and impartial studies have shown homosexuality to just be a normal human sexual variation. People who are homosexual are every bit as productive and moral as anyone else. Sexual preference of an individual does not effect negitively another person who has a different gender preference. It's time for folks like you to grow up and fact that fact. Because the rest of us are not going to live by your belief on homosexuality you glean from a segment of a religion many of us do not agree with. Homosexuality is part of the spectrum of normal human sexuality. And that has always been the case, and is something that will will never change.
And I see the old snear that gays and lesbians have many short relationships and this is detrimental to their health and welfare justified at all if it is those uttering such nonsense are the ones working aggressively to make it as hard as possible to commit to and live ib a stable long term relationship. It's time to stop oppressing people and tho legalize marriage for all in this country.
What is unjust is to try to impose your religion on the laws that involve everyone else. There is nothing obscene about one human being making this strong a commitment to another.
There is a precursor to your idea that needs an answer before your question is answered. How does a homosexual promote social standards and goals since a homosexual can not have children? As a group, aren't they a detriment to social goals for the survival of society?
Homosexuals have children, and the ability to procreate is not the benchmark to determine if a marriage is valid or not.
Can you explain this natural phenomena?
I don't need to explain it twice. You lack rationality in stipulating the child bearing issue is the benchmark of marriage and then saying that only homosexual couple who don't have children with each other or through adoption are the non-childbearing couple to be discriminated here. You explain to me how people past child bearing years or are incapable of having children with each other should be allowed to marry yet claim that the only thing that is important in marriage how well the team of two can drop pups. This is an illogical posture to take, but you don't care because the primary motivation you have here is based on hatred and intolerance. I seem many women couples in town who have plenty of kids who are well adjusted and flourishing. And the kids do not turn out gay if their parents have that gender preference. It is inherent in a person's nature to be straight or gay. It is not taught or a fad someone buys into.
Yes you do need to explain your post. You made the post, correct? How do homosexuals NATURALLY have children? Don't evade the question, Mike. Come clean and discuss the merits of your ideas.
I have. Just because you don't want to acknowledge I've addressed this, I am not going to pander to your contrivance here.
Keep kicking their as buckeroo.
Are you saying that homosexuals have natural birth? Let us see.... and Can you explain in any detail how this phenomena occurs?
I explained how. You are just unwilling to acknowledge that. To you, a heterosexual partner who have to rely on a surrigate Mom or artificial insemination as being normal but a gay couple who does the same sort of thing with the same end goal in mind are horrble to you. This is a double standard, and points to the fact I have already covered this base with you and points to the bigotry that spawns your cognitive dissonance on the topic.
For wiccan tree divers.
Obama's watch stopped on 24 May 2008, but he's been too busy smoking crack to notice.
Except the mental heath establishment that has sown homosexuality not to be an evil or a stigma are made up of scant few of those.
I know you regard me as a fairely simple and stupid poster, as though I am a mere country bumpkin, but I am intrigued how two males can have children OR conversely, how two women can have children naturally without male/female interaction. Look, I am learning all the time. Help me!
The point you make a mountain out of a molehill over is that has nothing to do with the right to marriage. Unless you are a believer that infertile humans should be banned from marriage, or even have it ended if their fertile period of life ends.
Marriage has ALWAYS been between a single man and a woman. It is a contract between themselves and society at large. It is a rite of passage about one's maturity to be successful in the raising of children and family life overall. How is that idea a "mountain out of a molehill over is that has nothing to do with the right to marriage"?
Homophobia and bigotry of homosexuals has not always been such a common affliction. Your 'always" is a lie. Marriage is a commitment between two people that should always be permitted. The human race would not be better if people who prefer same gender relationships were forced to go against their will to marry someone of the opposite sex. Hatred and oppression would win, and human rights and the common good would suffer greatly.
Lets review human history for a moment. Where has homosexuality been honoured?
The homo mafia has tried using strong-arm tactics, but normal people aren't buying it. Kenyans know the Obama illness well, and aren't afraid to speak the truth. It's settled science, known for 6 thousand years. In a press release dated December 15, 1973, the APA became the first medical organisation “to officially remove the stigma of disease from persons with same-sex preference”. It’s very important to note that no new medical findings had been made about homosexuality between 1970 and 1973 to reverse the diagnosis that it was a disease. The homosexual lobby brought about this reversal by its persistent and for the most part, dishonest public campaigning. This included coercion and lobbying of government and influential organizations in America. Numerous incidences are well documented during this period when homo activists frequently disrupted medical conferences, shouting down speakers and physically intimidating scientists. Clearly, the 1973 reversal was a political and not a scientific decision by the APA. Its very easy to understand why the homosexual activists resorted to these unscientific tactics. The credibility of the homosexual movement was at great risk as long as the medical professional listed their behaviour as a sickness. Public opinion in America (and elsewhere) could be greatly influenced to regard homosexuality positively if a “scientific opinion” was to lend support to the homosexual cause. Thus, the 1973 APA decision opened the most important door for homosexuality to find a legal footing in western countries. I will now demonstrate here that homosexuality remains a mental disorder, despite what misguided Western nations may want Africans to believe. Any honest, unbiased person who has studied the medical literature relating to homosexuality will surely reach the same conclusion.
Obama's watch stopped on 24 May 2008, but he's been too busy smoking crack to notice.
To you, a heterosexual partner who have to rely on a surrigate Mom or artificial insemination as being normal but a gay couple who does the same sort of thing with the same end goal in mind are horrble to you. This is a double standard, and points to the fact I have already covered this base with you and points to the bigotry that spawns your cognitive dissonance on the topic. Mike quit playing stupid. Faggots can't reporduce with themselves. Then need to sexually abuse a woman in some manner. Mike I know you said your mom abused you as a child. There is something seriously wrong with you. Did she molest you? You never mentioned your dad. Do you know him. Did he spend time with you? Did you play with barbies and wear a dress as a child? Did you have a labotomy or did you maybe have your head run over by a steam roller?
This is just one of many links with material covering the topic. I already did this ground in more then one sociology class, and I am not going to do it once more here. I am not gay and do not feel the pressing need to devote this much time and more to this topic; particularly in this hostile venue. You are welcome to read up on this should you chose.
Is a word insecure faggots such as yourself made up to try and make themselves feel better. You and your faggot friends are normaphobes. Freaks, perverts degenerates, kindling, useless eaters.
Did your lobotomy make you so stupid you cannot even spell the word?
It is a childish game to bait people as part of the group involved in the header topic. It is you who looks stupid doing this, not me, Mr. High School games.
Did someone stick an ice pick in your eye and swish it around? Your existence is making me understand the need that societies in the past felt to burn witches. They didn't deal with freaks like you. They just got rid of you.
Is a word insecure faggots such as yourself made up to try and make themselves feel better.
Understatement of the year.
Do you have the right to impose your religious "beliefs" on others? I have yet to see the great harm shown that will result from gay marriage. Gays are, have been, and always will be a small part of the population and therefore any perceived impact on families will be negligible.
No. Stand your ground, Mike. Put up or shut the fuck up about how homosexuals have children naturally. No stinkin' hotlinks.
You deserve no more consideration. Happy Mother's Day.
They don't even have them unnaturally. They can only hold them hostage. They aren't parents. They aren't a family. A family can never consist of two homosexuals.
End of discussion. You no longer wish dialog anyway.
You no longer wish dialog anyway. Tuck your talk and run wuss.
Not even close.....
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Top • Page Up • Full Thread • Page Down • Bottom/LatestBut they keep banging on church's doors and demanding a Christian ceremony.
#42. To: lucysmom (#36)
He says specific marriage rite and you agreed that was most likely so.
#43. To: lucysmom (#41)
#44. To: Fibr Dog (#42)
#45. To: All (#0)
Why do some people who would recognize gay civil unions oppose gay marriage?
#46. To: SJN (#35)
#47. To: CZ82 (#45)
"And I still haven't seen anybody mention the real reason why gays want to get married in the first place......"
#48. To: SJN (#35)
#49. To: Ferret Mike, SJN (#48)
What is unjust is to try to impose your religion on the laws that involve everyone else. [?]
#50. To: buckeroo (#49)
#51. To: Ferret Mike (#50)
Homosexuals have children
#52. To: buckeroo (#51)
#53. To: Ferret Mike (#52)
#54. To: buckeroo (#53)
#55. To: buckeroo (#15)
#56. To: Ferret Mike (#54)
Homosexuals have children
Homosexuals have babies all the time.
#57. To: buckeroo (#56)
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#58. To: Ferret Mike, *Yukon neo-Progressive Vermin* (#46)
Homosexuality is part of the spectrum of normal human sexuality
"We (government) need to do a lot less, a lot sooner" ~Ron Paul
#59. To: hondo68 (#58)
#60. To: Ferret Mike (#57)
I explained how. [how homosexuals have children NATURALLY]
#61. To: buckeroo (#60)
#62. To: Ferret Mike (#61)
The point you make a mountain out of a molehill over is that has nothing to do with the right to marriage.
#63. To: buckeroo (#62)
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#64. To: Ferret Mike (#63)
Homophobia and bigotry of homosexuals has not always been such a common affliction. Your 'always" is a lie.
#65. To: Ferret Mike, *Liberal Rehab Staff* (#59)
(Edited)
the mental heath establishment that has sown homosexuality
Homosexual Diseases Part 3: Mental Disorders (Kenyans Against Homosexuality - Confronting Homosexuality with Facts)
"We (government) need to do a lot less, a lot sooner" ~Ron Paul
#66. To: Ferret Mike (#57)
I explained how. You are just unwilling to acknowledge that.
#67. To: buckeroo (#64)
Homosexuality in History
#68. To: Ferret Mike (#63)
Homophobia
#69. To: A K A Stone (#66)
"Did you have a labotomy or did you maybe have your head run over by a steam roller? "
#70. To: A K A Stone (#68)
#71. To: Ferret Mike (#69)
#72. To: Ferret Mike (#70)
#73. To: Ferret Mike (#67)
in this hostile venue.
#74. To: SJN (#34)
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It is upholding what God Himself put together and not perverting it.
#75. To: Ferret Mike (#67)
You are welcome to read up on this should you chose.
#76. To: A K A Stone (#72)
#77. To: buckeroo (#75)
No. Stand your ground, Mike. Put up or shut the fuck up about how homosexuals have children naturally. No stinkin' hotlinks.
#78. To: buckeroo (#75)
#79. To: Ferret Mike (#78)
End of discussion.
#80. To: Ferret Mike (#47)
And I see the old snear that gays and lesbians have many short relationships and this is detrimental to their health and welfare justified at all if it is those uttering such nonsense are the ones working aggressively to make it as hard as possible to commit to and live ib a stable long term relationship.
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